Millions of women around the world struggle with a poor self-image and a devastatingly low self-esteem. Lots of us secretly wish we had longer legs, a slimmer waistline, a fairer skin-tone, a smaller nose or Nicky Minaj's behind.
While some women literally work their backsides off to attain the size zero Supermodel silhouette, others try every trick in the book to increase the size of their assets and be "bootylicious." For some reason, we are just never satisfied with the way we look.
Well, this post is not about getting a bigger booty, longer legs or a button nose. It's about branding yourself and accentuating your most outstanding features. It's about feeling awesome in your own skin and looking phenomenal everyday, come rain or shine.
Here are a few simple things that can dramatically boost every woman's self esteem and bring that extra spark and pizazz that we all so desperately long for.
1. A signature oufit
You don't need to overstretch your budget in an attempt to buy the most extravagant and expensive clothes. You don't even need to seek out the services of a professional stylist or fashion designer. What you do need is a signature outfit.
For those that may be confused, a signature outfit is that one sophisticated, sassy and stylish outfit that makes you look and feel like a million dollars. It doesn't have to cost an arm and a leg, but it must show off your best features and disguise the aspects you're not so proud of.
Avoid clothes that are too baggy - they are extremely unflattering and will make you look boxy and a lot larger than you really are. Also, stay away from clothes that look like they've been painted on - you don't want people thinking you're trashy. The main objective is to look stunning, elegant and dignified.
Play around with a variety of colors and textures to add some spunk to your outfit. The right jewellery, scarfs and belts will also give you a little more "oomph", provided you match them correctly. Unless you're Sir Elton John, the Christmas tree look is a big "No no."
2. A pair of killer heels
The right pair of shoes will not only add a little extra-flair to a lovely outfit, but it will also make you feel hotter than a day in the desert. Nothing says "Everybody stand back, I'm here and ready for action" like the right pair of shoes.
As a stiletto fanatic, I would normally advocate for stiletto heels, but, when it comes to shoes, I've learned that comfort is key. There's really no point in buying an extravagant pair of designer heels you can't walk in. Nobody likes to see a grown woman staggering along, with a hideous scowl on her face simply because her shoes are 'killing' her.
You are much better off in a lower heeled pair that you can confidently strutt your stuff in. Remember: A huge part of looking hot is being comfortable.
3. Great hospitality
I'm pretty sure many of you thought, "Uh oh!" when you saw that sub-heading. Well, you'll be glad to know you don't need to be Jamie Oliver to be an amazing hostess. Great hospitality is all about making your guests feel welcome and at home when they visit.
It's about being pleasant, sociable and courteous. Like I mentioned earlier, you don't have to be a Master Chef, though being a good cook can come in handy if you're looking to impress(In-laws especially).
If cooking really isn't your forte, don't despair. You can hire a Chef or even, order take-outs. The most important thing is to ensure that everyone has the time of their lives.
4. A trusted confidant
Every woman needs someone reliable and honest they can confide in - someone who won't air all their dirty laundry in public later on. Unless you want to be the joke of the town, refrain from telling all your secrets to anyone who cares to listen.
Your confidant will help you think through various life issues before making a decision or making an absolute fool of yourself. They'll listen to your ranting and raving without judging you and motivate you to be the best you can be.
If you do find someone like this - someone you can trust and depend on through thick and thin, cherish them.
5. Lots of self-love
I can't emphasize enough the importance of women being able to truly love themselves. Self love means acknowledging that you're human and will make mistakes from time to time. It means accepting your flaws and celebrating your strengths.
Self-love is about loving who you are, not just what you have. Embrace your uniqueness and take pride in being "you." Don't go through life trying to be a replica of someone else. You are amazing, outstanding, extraordinary and phenomenal.
When you are able to love yourself, looking good will follow, naturally.
In closing, remember that your best days are ahead of you, not behind you. Keep on dreaming, growing and glowing!
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