5 types of women that men simply can't stand

When relationships fall apart, most women are quick to point a finger at the men and to say things like, "It's not my fault, he had no ambition whatsoever" or "He was just a momma's boy." But if we actually stop and take a good look at ourselves, we may realize that we're the ones at fault sometimes.

Well, I've found that there are 5 types of women that have an uncanny ability to drive men up the wall and out of their lives. Are you one of them?

1.  The bragging, self-centered woman
This is the type of woman who brags endlessly about her achievements and belittles everyone around her, including her man. She rattles on and on about her new car, her promotion at work and her latest awards but rolls her eyes when others talk about their own lives and personal interests.

She doesn't value her man's opinion because she thinks she has everything all figured out. In fact, she believes she's the man in the relationship. During arguments, she won't hesitate to hiss, "I'm the one making all the money here, so you should just shut up and do as I say."

Ladies, don't get me wrong - it's good to be ambitious, successful and to make money, but that should never be an excuse for you to act like a spoiled, arrogant brat. You can be the boss at work, a prestigious Business guru or the top student at school, but you need to realize that relationships are all about caring, compassion and compromise. Never, ever wave your wealth in your man's face or use your achievements to make him feel small. Show him respect and treat him like a man.

2. The loud-mouthed, nagging woman
This is the screeching, complaining woman who finds fault with everything and everyone. She's aggressive, ruthless and has verbal wars with just about everyone she meets. This woman bosses her man around and tells him what to do, where to go, what to eat and how to eat it.

She's always ready for a confrontation. Her motto is "Speak first, think later." Hurling insults and throwing around a bunch of baseless accusations is her favorite hobby. Her man dreads receiving text messages or phone calls from her because of her tendency to quarrel  and criticize.

My darling, if this describes you, it's time to change! No man in his right mind wants to be with a rude, insensitive maniac who constantly bites his head off. Make an effort to listen more and speak less. If you're angry, take time to cool off before you open your mouth to say anything. Acknowledge your man's achievements and show your appreciation for all the wonderful things he does. Take it from me, it will work wonders for your relationship!

3. The unprincipled, unscrupulous diva
Now, this one is like a character in a late night movie. She flirts and exchanges numbers with  every Jack, Tom and Harry, stays out all night and lies about her whereabouts. She'll gladly sleep with any man who buys her dinner and drives a flashy car. She has no self-respect, no standards and is absolutely shameless.

A lot of women are under the impression that men want someone who is spontaneous, adventurous and somewhat wild. But the truth is: men want someone who is spontaneous, adventurous and wild - with them and nobody else.

They want someone who is dignified, has tonnes of self-respect and is trustworthy. They want someone they can trust to be faithful no matter what. If you're presenting yourself as being slutty and easy, no good man will want to build a future with you. And just because a man beds you doesn't mean he loves you. Don't lie to yourself.

4. The woman without any family values
This is the kind of woman who hates her siblings, curses at her father and exchanges blows with her mother. A woman who simply cannot live in peace and harmony with other people.

She breaks all the house rules and has no concern for anyone but herself. She can easily prepare lavish meals for herself and live in the lap of luxury while her family starves right before her very eyes.

Baby girl, there is nothing cute about turning your back on your family. We all know the saying, "Charity begins at home." Real men want a good woman who'll love them and their families... someone who'll be kind and caring, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health.  And they are able to tell whether you are the right kind of woman based on the way you treat your own family.

5. The lazy, directionless woman
This is the type of woman who spends the entire day in her pyjamas, watching TV and painting her nails. She passes up opportunities to further her studies and refuses to show up for job interviews.  She's not sick or incapacitated in any way, but simply detests the idea of hard work.

She lets the dishes pile up in the sink for days on end and isn't willing to cook, clean the house or do the laundry because she might miss an episode of her favorite soap opera. She has no desire to contribute to society in any way and has no dreams or ambitions of her own.

Ladies, if this is you, you need to wake up and smell the coffee. There's nothing attractive about being lazy. Don't let your intelligence and creativity go to waste. Find something to do - go to school, bake, start a book-club, volunteer in a community project or get a job. It will develop you mentally and emotionally, give you something to look forward to and make you a whole lot more interesting. And if you're lucky, you might be able to make a bit of money while you're at it.

If you have been one of these 5 types, it's never too late to turn over a new leaf. You can start over, today, right now. The best in life awaits you!