Over the years I've had many long, heart-to-heart chats my home girls, and the biggest question in most girl's minds is: How do I know if a guy really likes me? So, I've taken it upon myself to hunt high and low for the answer. What I've found is based on a combination of personal-experience and research. I hope it helps lots! So here goes!
Ladies, a guy is just not that into you if:
1. He doesn't answer your calls or reply your text messages and emails. That one seems pretty obvious, right?
2. He only talks to you when he needs something : someone to pay for his lunch, give him transport money or run an errand for him.
3. He pulls the "Nicodemus stunt" on you. I'm sure we're all pretty much aware of Nicodemus, the Pharisee who paid Jesus a visit in the middle of the night because he didn't want his buddies to see him with the "enemy." Similarly, when a guy pulls a "Nicodemus stunt" on you, he makes sure he visits you at times and at places where no-one who is anyone in his life will see you together. This list of people includes friends, parents, collegues, pastor or priest, and usually a girlfriend, fiancee, and in extreme cases, a wife. If a guy would rather chew glass than introduce you to his close friends and family,you need to take that as a sign that he's just not serious about you.
4. Last but not least: he tells you that he's not interested. Darling, if a guy says those horrendous words, "Sorry, I don't think you and me are gonna work" or something along those lines, walk away with your head held high and your dignity in tact. Don't reduce yourself to begging for love. A guy who's worth it won't make you grovel and plead for his affection. On that note, here's to finding Mr Right!
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